Ever wonder....

Ever wonder how we ignore or overlook even grave mistakes of the ones we love or have good relations with, while we latch on to even the tiniest quirks of people we dislike?

This especially comes to prominence if our relations with a dear person sours. At that time we get agitated and notice many flaws in their personality. We wonder why we never noticed those quirks before.

Well, we were aware of those flaws right from the very beginning, but chose to overlook those flaws as we regarded them as minor things in the context of the important relationship we were in.

But, as the relationship soured, we stopped looking at that person through rose-tinted glasses and then..... we gripe! :)

Still wonder why?......